The neutral side of things!

             You know there comes a time when you do something and in your heart, you feel like it's the right thing. You even feel like you're doing it better than other people and you are in a sense, 'the best person' there. I mean come on, we all have those moments don't we? 

      
           But what if the opposite happen. What if the things you thought you are doing right, turns out to be absolutely wrong? What then?! Does it mean your view of what is wrong and right is wrong and the wrong is actually right??

Okay too confusing.

          Anyways, this scenario recently happened to me. I was in a group (not going to say specifically what or why) and things weren't going too smoothly. I felt like a lot of the people weren't taking things seriously and I was the only one doing my job properly. It was as if the project didn't mattered to them and it was all a joke. But then, as the weeks gone by, I realized that I was the one who actually wasn't doing my part. I was so caught up in the idea that I was right, that I became completely biased to the fact that I wasn't even doing anything. Turns out, the people I thought were loafing around, did their job surprisingly well and they definitely did a whole lot better than I did. Yes, I'm ready to take my humble pie now.


         It's not only that, I start to realize that I'm doing it to my friends too. Like for example, when we do a project which requires us to chip in money, I'm perfectly fine if someone else chip in more money but I silently get unhappy when I have to chip in more especially if my job is harder or even easier. I know I know, I'm so cheap! But then again to be fair, I thought it was justified at that time and I didn't think I was wrong.

Which leads me to the purpose of this topic. I think some people, me included should see the neutral side of things. Not just how 'we' see it or what 'other people' see it. It gets hard of course because we are humans after all and we tend to see things in a biased point of view. I also think there are some situations where we have to not be so Asian and calculative about basically everything and expect everything to be balanced at the end of the day. It's because that's how the world is and that's how people are. :)


Oh, and I know I haven't been blogging for like what, over a year but I decided to take it up again since I'm so free and I honestly do enjoy writing them! Plus I really miss blogging so yeah.

Kay too gay.

Anyways, peace. Bye. Or whatever. c: