Okay that was lame. I don't even know what I just said hoho
Anyways, all jokes aside. I'm pretty sure alot of you know where this is headed. Yes I'm talking about...
*THUM THUM THUMMMMM*
Gahhh
It's cool to be 'in the zone' when you're really good at something, but it's never fun to be friend-zoned or family-zoned. If it's from some random stranger or a girl I have no feelings for, then it's cool. But not when it's from your crush.
Especially when it's from your crush! T.T
When this happens, typical us guys (well.. atleast I do lah haha) look in the mirror and start to think
"What does the other guys have that I don't have??!!?? :( "
"I'm not good looking enough for her. :/"
"Girls always go after the bad boys. Am I being way too nice??? :o"
"I think I'm too much of a nerd for her to like me. Go figure :B"
"Omg, I am going to die single because I am too uncool!! ._."
The list goes on forever. I'm pretty sure anyone who has been friend/family-zoned before would have thought of atleast one of these before. I know I have. Been there, done that. -_- Worst of all, it totally ruins your self-esteem because you think you're not good enough in general for anyone to like you for who you are.
Of course, most of the time we exaggerate the truth. I do it all the time and it's funny when I think about it haha. We feel like the other person can't fall for us because we're too goofy or too ugly. But truth, it's not because of any of those (except for those shallow people. Which is good. Trust me, never go after a shallow person now matter how 'perfect' she is -_-) but its because she isn't the right one.
Yeah, you're probably thinking about it now and deep down in your heart. Deep deeep ddeeeepp down, you know that too. I mean, if she can't like you for who you are, why go after her? And if she only looks at outer beauty like all those hot guys with their buffed bodies and hot looks, then screw her because she can't appreciate a nice guy like you.
Hey my friend, it's never a good feeling being friend/family-zoned, but it happens. So what can you do about it?? Cry? Feel sorry for yourself?? Will that make anything better? No it won't. Think of it positively. I mean, she's still in your life right?? And she thinks you're a nice guy! Which is actually a good thing! It beats being a jerk. And no, just because you're friend/family-zoned, doesn't mean you're gonna be foreveralone. It just means God has prepared someone special for you. You'll see. ;)
After all, even the 'Happily Ever After' in fairytale's happen at the end of the story. What's a good story without a little twist and turn?? ;)
So chill bro. God is still writing your happy ending. It's gonna happen! Noone likes reading short fairytale so let yours be long with a few surprises along the way aye?? ;)
P.S. I googled up friend/family-zone and I came across some really funny yet true pics haha. Take a look ;)
P.S. I googled up friend/family-zone and I came across some really funny yet true pics haha. Take a look ;)
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| HAHA THIS IS HOW WE FEEL EVERYTIME!!
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